Tips for Surviving the First Year with Twins

Hello, fabulous readers! If you’re reading this, you’re either knee-deep in diapers or nervously prepping for your twin bundles of joy to arrive. First things first: congratulations! Second, welcome to the wonderful—and slightly wild—world of twins. Surviving the first year with twins is no small feat, but with some tried-and-true tips (and plenty of caffeine), you’ll come out on the other side smiling. So, let’s dive into some guncle-approved survival strategies to help you through those early months.

1. Master the Schedule

Twins thrive on routine, and honestly, so will you. Get those babies on the same schedule as soon as possible—feeding, sleeping, everything. This is key to keeping your sanity. Feed them at the same time, put them down for naps together, and if one wakes up, wake the other up too. Yes, waking a sleeping baby might sound like a crime, but trust me, you’ll thank yourself later.

2. Divide and Conquer

Let’s face it, you’re outnumbered. Whether you have a partner or family helping out, dividing and conquering is the way to go. One person changes diapers while the other preps bottles (or chugs coffee—no judgment). If you’re flying solo, keep everything you need within arm’s reach. Changing stations, bottles, and burp cloths in every room will be your lifeline.

3. Sleep When You Can

Yes, I know, everyone says this, but sleep is crucial for survival. When both babies nap, try to sneak in a quick nap yourself. The laundry can wait (and believe me, it’ll wait and wait). Even a 20-minute power nap can work wonders when you’re running on fumes.

4. Prep Like a Pro

Meal prep, bottle prep, baby prep—it’s all about being ready for anything. Prepping bottles before bedtime, laying out clothes for the next day, and having diapers and wipes stationed all over the house will save you time and stress. Trust me, late-night feedings are much easier when you’re not scrambling to find a clean bottle or an outfit that isn’t covered in spit-up.

5. Embrace the Chaos

Here’s the thing: twins are chaos wrapped in cuteness. There will be messes, meltdowns, and moments when you question everything. Just know it’s normal. Take a deep breath, laugh it off, and remember that no one has this whole parenting thing completely figured out. You’re doing great, even on the days when it feels like you’re barely holding it together.

6. Tag-Team the Feedings

Feeding two babies at once is like juggling with one hand tied behind your back. If possible, feed them simultaneously—one baby on each arm with bottles, or if you’re breastfeeding, try tandem nursing. This is where a good nursing pillow or boppy comes in handy. But if you’re really looking for a game-changer, I highly recommend the Table for Two feeding chair. It’s designed specifically for twins and allows both babies to be fed at the same time, while comfortably seated side-by-side. Not only does it save time, but it also makes feedings smoother, and bonus points: you can actually use your hands for other things (like sipping that much-needed coffee). The more you can double up on tasks, the more free time you’ll have (for a quick nap or a well-deserved snack).

7. Call in Reinforcements

Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Family, friends, neighbors—whoever’s willing. Whether it’s someone coming over to hold a baby while you shower or a friend dropping off dinner, take the help when you can get it. Twins are a two-person (or more) job, and there’s no shame in calling in reinforcements.

8. Celebrate the Small Wins

Some days, just getting everyone dressed (including yourself) is a victory. Celebrate the small wins: a day with no diaper blowouts, successfully getting both babies down for a nap at the same time, or simply surviving the day with your sense of humor intact. The first year is all about making it through one day at a time, so give yourself some credit!

9. Find Your Twin Tribe

Connecting with other twin parents can be a lifesaver. They understand the unique challenges of having two babies at once (and they probably have some great advice). Whether it’s an online group, a local meet-up, or even just a supportive friend with twins, find your tribe and lean on them for advice and encouragement. And hey, if you’re feeling stuck or need a little extra support, feel free to reach out to me at info@giddyguncle.com—I’d be happy to offer some tips or just commiserate over the twin chaos!

10. Cherish the Chaos

Yes, the first year with twins is tough, but it’s also filled with magical moments—double the giggles, double the cuddles, and double the love. Embrace the craziness and know that while the days may feel long, the years go by in a flash. Soak in every moment, because someday you’ll look back and laugh (maybe over a glass of wine) at how you made it through.

Until next time, keep laughing, keep cuddling, and remember—you’re doing an amazing job!