Traveling with Twins: Surviving Flights, Car Rides, and Everything In Between

Hello, fabulous readers! Today, I’m bringing you the ultimate guide to traveling with twins, because if you think wrangling two babies at home is a challenge, wait until you’ve got them on a plane or strapped into the car for hours. But fear not, because your Giddy Guncle is here to help you navigate those long journeys with tips, tricks, and, of course, a sprinkle of humor!

Whether you’re prepping for a long road trip or a flight across the country, traveling with babies doesn’t have to be a disaster. With a bit of planning (and a lot of snacks), you can actually make it through the day in one piece—and maybe even enjoy yourself.

Flights: The Sky’s the Limit… But Bring Snacks

Flying with babies can feel like an Olympic sport. You need to be prepared, fast on your feet, and ready for just about anything. Here are some tips to help your trip soar smoothly.

1. Timing Is Everything

If you can, book a flight that coincides with your babies’ nap time. According to The Happiest Baby on the Block by Dr. Harvey Karp, well-rested babies are much more likely to be happy babies. So, use those naps to your advantage. (Plus, if they sleep on the plane, you might actually get to enjoy the in-flight snack instead of wearing it.)

2. Strategic Packing Is Your New Best Friend

When packing your carry-on, think “mini survival kit.” Diapers, wipes, a change of clothes (for the babies and maybe even you—you never know), and lots of snacks. For younger babies, pack bottles or nursing supplies and be ready to feed during takeoff and landing to help with ear pressure. For older babies, distractions are key—think small toys, pacifiers, and snacks. Did I mention snacks?

3. Consider Babywearing

Babywearing can be a lifesaver in airports. Not only does it keep your hands free for navigating security, grabbing coffee, or flashing your boarding pass, but it also helps soothe your baby during the hustle and bustle of travel. Plus, babies love the comfort of being snuggled close, and you’ll feel like a travel ninja.

4. The Pressure Problem

One of the most common challenges for babies on planes is the change in cabin pressure. According to the American Academy of Pediatrics, offering a bottle, breastfeeding, or a pacifier during takeoff and landing helps equalize the pressure in their little ears. It’s a win-win: they’re more comfortable, and you get a little peace and quiet.

Long Car Rides: Are We There Yet?

Let’s be honest: long car rides with babies can feel like you’re entering a time warp. But with the right prep, you can minimize the meltdowns and maybe even sneak in a podcast or two.

1. Break It Up

According to Baby 411 by Dr. Ari Brown, babies and toddlers should only spend about 1-2 hours in their car seats before needing a break. Plan stops along your route to let the little ones stretch their legs (or crawl, or roll—whatever works!). It’ll give you all a reset and avoid those epic “Are we there yet?” meltdowns.

2. The Snack Strategy

(Yes, more about snacks—I cannot stress this enough.) For older babies, having a stash of bite-sized goodies that they can feed themselves is key. It also helps them practice that pincer grasp! Just make sure to pack non-messy snacks. Because while a car seat full of crumbs is manageable, a car seat full of sticky yogurt-covered raisins is a different story.

3. Car Ride Playlist

Whether it’s soothing lullabies, baby-friendly podcasts, or your favorite Disney soundtracks, having music or audio to entertain your little passengers can be a lifesaver. Some babies love white noise, so if you’re lucky, they might nap to the sound of the car humming along the highway. If they’re awake, try singing along. Off-key? Doesn’t matter. You’re making memories, and babies love it!

4. Entertainment on the Go

Bring a stash of toys that you can hand out over time. Pro tip: Don’t give them everything at once. Space it out! When one toy loses its magic, whip out the next. Keep them guessing and entertained for longer stretches.

General Tips for Both Flights and Car Rides

1. Dress Smart

Layers are your friend! Airports, planes, and even cars can have temperature swings that rival the North Pole to the Sahara. Dress your babies in comfy layers that can be easily added or removed. And don’t forget to dress yourself in something stain-resistant and functional. Comfort > fashion when you’re traveling with twins.

2. Embrace Flexibility

Even the best-laid plans can go sideways. Remember, travel is unpredictable, especially with little ones. Be flexible and ready to adapt. Miss a nap? It happens. Forget something? Improvise. The key is to stay calm (or as calm as possible) because your babies will take their cues from you.

3. Laugh It Off

If there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that a sense of humor will get you through the toughest moments. When Franky’s diaper explodes right as you’re about to board the plane, or Dougy decides to serenade the entire cabin with his rendition of “DADA DADA,” just roll with it. These are the stories you’ll laugh about later. (Or blog about, in my case!)

Final Thoughts: Keep Calm and Travel On

Whether you’re flying across the country or driving to Grandma’s, traveling with babies is an adventure. Sure, there might be a few bumps in the road (and maybe some spilled snacks), but with the right preparation, you’ll get through it—and maybe even enjoy the ride.

So, pack those snacks, prep those toys, and don’t forget the wipes. Safe travels, guncle squad!