The Big Milk Phase-Out: How to Transition from Bottles or Breastfeeding

Once your baby has gotten the hang of eating solids—usually around 9-12 months—it’s time to start gradually decreasing milk or formula feeds.

1. Day by Day: At first, you’ll want to swap out a milk feed with a solid meal, but keep a balance. Meals like breakfast or lunch are great places to start. Offer more variety as they grow, including protein-rich foods like scrambled eggs or soft pieces of chicken.

2. The Magic Age: According to pediatricians, by around 12 months, most babies can start transitioning to cow’s milk and a solid-food diet. (Though some parents continue breastfeeding beyond the first year, which is great too!)

3. Pincer Grasp FTW!: Around 9 months, babies typically develop the “pincer grasp”—using their thumb and forefinger to pick up small pieces of food. That’s when you can start offering soft, bite-sized finger foods, like small cubes of avocado or banana. It’s also when meals start getting… shall we say… interactive.

4. Keep the Hydration Flowing: As you reduce milk feeds, don’t forget to offer water in a sippy cup or straw cup with meals. The American Academy of Pediatrics suggests offering a small amount of water to help with digestion and get your little one used to drinking fluids other than milk.

Real Talk: Expect the Mess

If you think bottles are messy, just wait until mealtime becomes finger painting with pureed peas. Yes, transitioning to solids is exciting, but it’s also going to come with flying food, messy hands, and plenty of giggles. Make peace with the mess because this is part of the adventure!

As Parenting Science points out, allowing babies to explore food with their hands is not just about nutrition—it’s a sensory experience that supports their motor development and curiosity. So, let them smash, squish, and smear, even if you’ll be wiping sweet potato off the ceiling for days.

Final Thoughts: A Delicious Journey

Transitioning from formula or breastfeeding to meals is a gradual process, and each baby will have their own pace. Some will dive into food with both hands (and face), while others might be more cautious. The key is to keep things fun, balanced, and nutritious. After all, this is their first step toward joining you at the family table, and you’re setting the stage for a lifelong relationship with food.

So, stock up on bibs, embrace the mess, and remember: every meal is a new adventure for your little one—and you too!

Cheers to good food, great messes, and giddy baby giggles,

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